Gents how many times have you heard these statements “I like her but I get tongue-tied every time I see her” or “I get so nervous every time she talks to me” Or “I wish I was like him, he is so cool and knows just what to say to girls.”
I’m quite sure that by the time you were well into your teens, you must have heard variations of the above phrases.
You would probably have noticed that the brain of some guys just stop functioning when they are within a few meters of the girl that they like. It’s like they were put on ice. While other guy’s just breeze through their interaction with girls.
Well, gents sadly I was all those things said above. I lacked self-confidence which made me shy, and being shy can greatly affect one’s self-confidence. These two feed of another. People with low self-confidence often think that other people are better than them. This is not true although I admit some people are more proficient than others in certain things. We all can change ourselves for the better.
Anyway as time went by I knew I had to do something to improve my self-confidence in order to overcome my shyness. So as I grew into manhood I took interest in sports going to the gym pumping iron and engaging in some social activities. Due to my physique, women always winked at me or touch their hair, ears, etc. I knew all the signs but that fear was still in me. You’d think that for a guy who can bench press 80kgs, squat 90kg, and has a sexy body can ease his way up to a woman’s heart, but nope I couldn’t.
Things started to turn around when I met a girl at the beach during the summer. She wanted me to take a picture of her and her friends. She invited me to a party held that evening. Her friends were gushing all over and one of them asked me if I could model for her agency. I agreed and we exchanged contacts…
I showed up, had some photos of me taken and after the shoot, a lady asked me if I wanted to make some extra cash as a male escort. The prospect intrigued me after she explained what male escorts do. I said I’d think about it. After proper thought, I challenged myself to use this as a means to finally sort out my shyness issue.
Needless to say, I fumbled after the first couple of dates working as a male escort, but as I got booked frequently by more and more women I gradually built confidence. In the beginning, most of the women figured out I was new to the male escort business and took it upon themselves to give me practice lessons.
Now I am so confident as a male escort, to the point where I can walk into a den of “Lionesses” and definitely command the room!